Operating from a scarcity mindset means we start every interaction from a perceived place of lack. This automatically leads to every single one of the following mistakes! There are so many people out there to meet, online dating has a reputation for disposable dating but it also facilitates the connection of so many, there is absolutely no need to worry about not meeting someone. We are taught by society that Singledom is somehow a failure. As if our success as a human rests solely on our ability to attract a mate. But Singledom is an expression of autonomy and power. Often when we are Single we are in a process of change, development and self-assessment. Knowing this allows us to make choices in our own best interest when the time is right, not out of fear or lack. That we won’t accept bad treatment or mediocre attachments it is not a state of distress or weakness. There are plenty of men and women out there. Statistically there is bound to be someone who we connect with and who connects with us, and when we are ready we will attract someone into our life that expands it.